Tribute for my little sister.

[SRsmokealot]

It is with the most gut tearing sadness I must now live without my little sister.
This week she was driving th the ferry to go from detroit into canada and was killed in a head-on with a drunk driver.
She was only 21 years old,
I know this does not mean alot to all of you but I need to hear a bit of kind words in this my time of greatest need.
I have no other family other than wife and kids and this hurts so bad.
If anyone wants to help to create a nice memorial page in her honor I would be greatfull I have alot of images and her journals to read and amybe can make a site so I never have to forget what she stood for and even looked like.
My biggest fear is that I will with time forget the way she looked and acted.
I loved her very much but can not forgive myself for forgeting my parents after there death 5 years ago, I though I would always remeber them but as time went on I have trouble every seeing them in my mind.
I DONT WANT THIS AGAIN.
This is probebly in the wrong place to post but I need help guys.
I am alone and am not in the right frame of mind to begin constructing this at the moment.
If anyone has any kind words, THEY MEAN ALOT TO ME.
Forgive me for begging for support but for a along time all i have had to rely on are my tester buddies.
funny that the most of the people that mean alot to me are so far away and I have never seen there faces in most cases.
I love you dearly Amber and you will forever live in the minds of those whos lives you touched and the heart of those who held you dearly.
You have become truely Immortal.
I will try my hardest to never forget you.

James

[iDEN]

I know nothing I could possibly say is going to make you hurt any less, but I'm very sorry for your loss, and moreso that she was plucked from this world so early in her life. I don't know if you believe in a higher power, but in times such as these it's comforting to know that her passing was not in vain. God has a plan for her, and although her work on this earth is done, she'll always live on in your heart and memories. Now she's with your Mom and Dad in a place where there is no sadness, pain, or displeasure. She's truly at peace and they're all smiling down upon you now and will be even when you're not thinking of them. Keep her in your thoughts and her memory close to your heart, and one day when the time is right you'll all meet again.

Take care friend.

[SRsmokealot]

You have no idea how comforting your words are to me.
It is odd that a few kind words can feel so good.
I thank you and any other who speak or think her name.
For me this is of great help to hear you speak with such care for the feelings of one you never knew or to ease my pain and have never met me.
You are a compassionate person and I thank you for that.
It gives me great hope to know people like you still exist today and will help me to not give up and return this favor to another.
You have helped me more than you will ever know, and will probebly think this trivial.....
"how can a few words mean so much"
You have shown me that the little things really DO count and what may seem trivial could mean everything to someone in need.

Thank you friend.

[jeterfan]

I am new to this site (not to testing just to the site) and I have never posted here but your story touched me. I am a christian and Jesus is my Lord. I am deeply sorry for your loss and am sad for you to feel the pain. Your loved one is not gone just gone from this world. She is in a better place and I know that does not help your pain. This is the best answer any of us have because most of our lives we do not understand what Gods plan is for us. You are in my payers! if I have learned anything in the last 37 years it is that prayer works! It eases pain and heals the sick, it will lift your spirits and bring you out of depression, It is the most powerfull tool I have. God bless you and your family and I hope your pain becomes less every day and remmember Jesus paid it all for all of us to have eternal life pray in his name and I promise your burden will bw lightened.

[coolwind]

SRsmokealot
I am very sad to hear of your Loss & I Do know as to how you feel about your sudden Loss of your Sister Amber As I lost My Brother @ 21 also to cancer A massive Brain tumor
that took him away from me in less than a year & this was over 28 years ago & I always think of Him every Day almost ! Trust That God above has a better life For them Both as I Try to live life to the max But Its Hell On Earth & Heaven Above Is The best Place ! & He must have had a path for her @ this time or She would have Lived ! Hope This is Not took wrong But WHO R we to Question the Master of all ! But She is @ peace With A Family me & you Dont even know over Just a thought or a dream to me & you !
If their is anythink I Can personal do to help Please feel Free to Ask
COOLWIND !
P/S & May God Be With you All

[ghost71799]

It is with the most gut tearing sadness I must now live without my little sister.
This week she was driving th the ferry to go from detroit into canada and was killed in a head-on with a drunk driver.
She was only 21 years old,
I know this does not mean alot to all of you but I need to hear a bit of kind words in this my time of greatest need.
I have no other family other than wife and kids and this hurts so bad.
If anyone wants to help to create a nice memorial page in her honor I would be greatfull I have alot of images and her journals to read and amybe can make a site so I never have to forget what she stood for and even looked like.
My biggest fear is that I will with time forget the way she looked and acted.
I loved her very much but can not forgive myself for forgeting my parents after there death 5 years ago, I though I would always remeber them but as time went on I have trouble every seeing them in my mind.
I DONT WANT THIS AGAIN.
This is probebly in the wrong place to post but I need help guys.
I am alone and am not in the right frame of mind to begin constructing this at the moment.
If anyone has any kind words, THEY MEAN ALOT TO ME.
Forgive me for begging for support but for a along time all i have had to rely on are my tester buddies.
funny that the most of the people that mean alot to me are so far away and I have never seen there faces in most cases.
I love you dearly Amber and you will forever live in the minds of those whos lives you touched and the heart of those who held you dearly.
You have become truely Immortal.
I will try my hardest to never forget you.

James


Sorry to hear about your loss I will pray for you thats the best I can do.

I lost my brother 06/09/03 from diabetes at age 37. There is not a day that hasn't gone by that I don't think of him all I can say is if ya'll were real close she will come by to visit every now and then my brother does.

GHOST

[looto]

At such a young age, I am very sorry..................

My prayers are with you.....

[Chief]

SR, sometimes things happen that we just don't understand. It makes no sense for a beautiful young girl to perish at the hand of a drunk...and one asks the question, "God, where are you?"

He IS there....

You may never understand, at least not in this life. All things happen for a reason, and I firmly believe that when all is said and done, good will most certainly triumph over evil. Something positive will emerge from this event - although the pain may be slow to leave you, if it ever does.

Many do not believe in faith...I have no idea how one could deal with such a tragedy without it. Kind words from your friends on this site will soothe temporarily...but your faith will see you through, my friend.

You and your family are in all of our prayers and thoughts. God Bless, brother...

[gunther]

It always hurts to loose someone you care about, most of us have been there.

There is nothing that any of us can say to make it hurt less than it does.

I'm very sorry for your loss, and you do her memory proud showing how much you care.

[mili]

I am really sorry to hear of your loss, every premature death is senseless and one that is caused by the ignorance of a drunk is especially tragic. I wish you find peace.

mili

[SRsmokealot]

Thanks Everyone!!!
These past days have been hard,
Your support and kind word help more than you know.
What a great group of people you all are.

[HITEKREDNK]

SRsmokealot, I didn't see this until today, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. Savor life, because you only get one go-around. You are going to lose loved ones, unfortunatley so take time to be with them when ever you can.
HITEKREDNK

[4u2dzr2000]

SRsmokealot, sorry to hear of your loss
remember there is a light at the end of the tunel
just take day by day and hopefully your pain gets less and less
my prayers are with you

[slu3]

I'm really sorry to hear that I knew exactly what you're going through right now cause I just recently lost my father, just take care off yourself man. Thing will be OK soon.

slu3