2 year anniversary

[wtp]

This probebly isn't the best way to go about this but I need alittle help. I've been with this wonderful lady for about 7yrs and coming up on our 2yr anniversary next weekend. What do you get a woman that puts up with my BS and says that I am NOT suppose to waste any money on our anniversary. " we have alot of medical bills that need to be paid before you blow any money on me" is what I've been hearing. Well I need to get something. It's just not right for her to get nothing after all the money I spend on dish hobby and all the other dumb ideas I have. She never says a word. Now it's my turn to give alittle instead of taking. I get get her jewlery cause she works in a food plant and you can't where anything like that. Please help!! What do you get a woman for a 2yr anniversary?

[DEEZZ_NUTTS]

Take her out to a real nice dinner and get her one of those spa treatments where she can go all day and be pamperd.

[woods]

wife says day at the spa, or a weekend away at a nice b&b or hotel

[fubr]

mili has some great stuff in store :)


I think "dont spend no moneyon me ! really means dont spen ahole lot......maybe not diamonds or a car but a little something that shows you went out of your way and main thing is MAKE it look like you spent TIME thinking about it/her...

[mruk69]

How about a buffered Jtag? (might help to read her mind, will have to find the right definition for Jkeys though):D

If you don't have to much money to spend, then just do something special like a special Picnic. have a friend play the violin or something.
Use you imagination.

Congrats mate.

[sukh77]

A rose.
Then a line Thanking her.
Then any of the above.

[wtp]

Thanks everyone for the ideas. I told her that everybody has medical bills. It's a part of life. I got just one week to figure it out. With these ideas and some I might be able to come up with, should be a good day. I did ask her if she wanted to goto McDonalds for a happy meal and she said thats fine....... Not the responce I thought I would get. lol

[Dsswhiz]

wtp .....it sounds like you found U a really good woman.......congrats man!!! Tha spa and a nice dinner is always nice , a little letter or poem telling her how you feel always hits tha spot and tha good thing about that its free. And we men hate to show or tell our true feelings .... she'll fell more than specail if you do that.... thats jus my penny ..... good luck and congrats agian man

[wtp]

well only a few days to go and haven't got a damn thing yet. We don't have any place that has a spa, that I'm aware of. hummmmmmmmm, I think I'm spending the weekend in the dog house. That sucks.

[oldlumber]

Man you better get off your butt and get her a little something. I have figured my wife out (sort of).......if she tells me to get her nothing and I come home with just that then I am in the dog house, but if she tells you nothing (and she really means something) and you come home with even the smallest gift you are her hero. If you have farmers markets in the area then swing by get some fresh flowers from there or your local flower shop (doesn't have to be 10 dozen red roses...can be anything that looks nice.....and doesn't necessarily have to be expensive. Get her a card and then either make a little dinner( if you can cook) or take her out for a little dinner. She will appreciate even the smallest things and it sure does look better on your behalf than getting her nothing at all. The spa thing is a great idea....but she will be fine with some flowers and a good meal. REMEMBER!!!!! this is year two.....start small......otherwise at year 20 you will be buying her million dollar homes for your anniversary.

[kable2]

I has a dozen roses delivered to my wife at her work once :)

She went mad about it, all her friends were like 'your so lucky' etc

Then go out for dinner.


/that or bring home a hooker so you both can enjoy it.
//maby not hehehe

[DEEZZ_NUTTS]

WTP if shes the one your gunna spend your whole life with then you could go out and get her name tattoed over your heart. thatll show her how much you love her,also since theres no spas aorund just cook her a real nice dinner. you can also go out and get some rose petals and some candles put them around the bathtub and get some bubble bath and just sit there and talk to her while she takes a nice bubble bath. a lil candle light dinner and a lil candle light bubble baths wouid really hit the sweet spot in a women. you could also get some massage oil and give a nice massage you know rubb her feet and etc etc.....just remember its not always the size of the gift that matters...but just remembering that counts. good luck and i hope you have many more anniversaries to come

[bols2dawaLL]

Can you cook at all ? Maybe dig up a cool recipe on the internet and cook for her . Some candles - a red rose - maybe some wine . Works on gettin laid too . LOL

[mruk69]

Get yourself some Cialis, that way you can both enjoy your anniversary for 36 hours. That should definatly please her.:D

[wtp]

Thanks for all the great ideas. Todays the day I go looking for something. tomorrow is the big day. I'll let you guys know what I decide to get. Thanks agian for all the input. Could be interesting, Thanks again

[marin001]

Thanks for all the great ideas. Todays the day I go looking for something. tomorrow is the big day. I'll let you guys know what I decide to get. Thanks agian for all the input. Could be interesting, Thanks again

best things that always work: if you can cook do her favorite, candles, a rose, clean the house before she gets home, don't let her do a thing. (even the dishes). if there's a nail place near you get a gift certificate for her. (feet and hands). like they said above a day at the spa but also include a card letting her know how you appreciate her. even mention it feels like if you take her for granted. make sure everything you do is focused on her. we guys sometimes don't realize that even if we get them jewels, diamonds, watches that we forget about them (meaning what is it that she really wants) sometimes they don't want jewels, diamonds, or wathes they just want to be regonized, appreciated, and most of all wanted/needed. most of all anniversaries are personal. congrats and good luck.